I overheard about these alternative JOBS!

Some say working 8.30am or 9.00am,  to 5.00pm or 6.00pm is one tiring thing. Well, I tried, so here is the reality; I got 'politically' shoved around, commanded and made a 'scapegoat'.

I thought life was like in themovies initially, well, NO!

So, I wanted OUT. And one evening as I dragged my feet home, thinking of the next day, I heard from a group of people, discussing on 'contracts'. I was helpless, and decided to hear anything... as I felt freedom!

They talked about motivation, and various needs, people like me need! I then,

BECAME VERY INTERESTED IN LEARNING FROM THESE SOLO PROFESSIONALS!

I read about something I found useful; to share!

The 'formula' related to the way the 'violent' adolescents act, and 'problematic' kids, are all related to the teaching and model of their parents! Hmm... I have a negative parent, and the other an optimistic, opportunity seeing parent!

See, the simple atricle I read told me that the feeling of weakness can be controlled! So, I went the way leading me to optimism.

Thank God I did as I knew I had to rebuild everything from the 'start'.

• Think of happy memories, your achievements in life!
• Be appreciative of the environment
• Acknowledge that there is support for you, even if you cannot see it!

I had one thought in mind, as I watched the clip on Nick Vujicic, and

I know that I can do something for myself; STILL! (YOU, YOU, AND YOU ALL MUST Survive TOO!)

Faith is more powerful than belief?!

My belief, gave me relief

I remembered the days I fought against tremendous pain to stay alive. But there were worries by people ‘around me’, who cringe when they saw dosages of pain killers; morphine injected into me to keep me sane.
I will not say that I did not depend on ‘medical drugs’ to survive the pain, but I must emphasize the Faith I had in the surgeon and my God, which gave me the ‘simplest course of action to take!
I thought, nothing to leave behind, nothing I left behind, so,  “let’s ’surrender’ and smile that there are people crying for me, and doing everything they can to save me.”
So, you just relax, and let God do the rest.

There are people out there, to save you. It is the ‘matter of when, and not why’.

So be nice to others, we do not know who will save us!

What is life for; is it worth living; on? Hmm, try...

There is the 'try' thing that motivators told me not to tell myself to try; but go do the something, with the "will do it' in my mind.

I was told before, live, believe in life, not death!

So, I simply popped the question to the person, attempting to give me some strength to 'breathe': What is all worth? Living on will only make me feel worse when I realize the loss of my healthy, athletic and 'vibrant' social life!

Well, the answer was simple, but powerful.

My brother told me gently, my parents love me. And many others too, so be strong.

Today, I look up the sky, god is looking at me, your god is looking at you too!

So, live; well!

A formula that makes sense!

The solution to a problem  ->
Triggers emotion ->
Triggers thoughts ->

(resulting in:)->

Reaction (response)

This could be why negative people simply DO THEIR BEST TO AVOID, while the positive people think of such obstacles as a leeson to learn from!

EASIER SAID THAN DONE, I confess, I am still learning!

It is late, but not impossible, YET!

I often 'postponed' urgent activities in the past. Therefore the events that resulte from this neglect has lft me with a huge workload, many frustrating and burdening in the sense of perception as I was a person who was; lazy. A procrastinator!

The resultant effect is the failure in time management, planning in lifestyle, family and the simplest of relationships.

Now the focus is on you, where you have to avoid the mistakes I made and prevent the resultant backlashes that will definitely become an obstacle in your life, career and any form of relationships.

BETTER LATE THAN NEVER

Not just Law of Attraction itself.

Many more ‘sub points; in each subheading’

I thought that the Law of attraction was the whole ‘secret to success’ itself. However, I ‘dug ‘deeper only to realize it is like the desktop wallpaper! There is more than just THAT.


Like the Law of the Straight Lines: Getting to targets the ‘fastest way, rather than letting noise distract or make the route; a curved one’.

I am at the working age now, like the 'young impulsive perception' initially, I wanted instant gratification, so I had expectations more than thoughts of earning a future. I admit that I was a naïve student, with the wrong mindset and wrong; ATTITUDE.

So, I am going to tell you, what not to do! Like me.

You, must not…

• Think of everything as a one hundred percent success
• Do things that seem totally correct; to you, not others.
• Keep a close minded mindset, instead, listen to your peer’s advice!
• Do not go out of your comfort zone without doing thorough research on the activity you will be doing!

In short, do things rationally. NOT LIKE ME, RASH-LY!

The Law of Attraction is not all like becoming a magnet for money and other luxury!

Learn to live, not live for nothing!

Survival depends on an ULTIMATE medicine

 "A cheerful heart is medicine. but a broken spirit saps a person's strength."

-quoted from Proverbs

In fact, to smile and learn to talk well, gives me the confidence to smile, as I do not need to fear Speaking to anyone. However, learn their 'language and culture' though.

If you are planning on the future, do not be obstructed by the 'barriers to entry' into the 'market' which contains the DREAM you wanted. Negative people who gossip about others, make a conversation out of complaints are just too sad; and may drag YOU down, so, be nice, and 'slowly slip away from bad habits.'

And, spread the SMILES!

Live and tomorrow your chance will come

I knew that being badly affected by cancer will make me unemployable, as I was 'black-marked' as a KIA soldier that once served the Nation in National Service.

I was loyal, but my spirit, became more 'Self -centred' as I began to know that the 'concrete jungle' out there is all about hierarchy and knowledge on the job, not what you personally know.

It is very depressing, so I fell into a period of depression, initially. And fell ill, to make things worse! So, I could not even attend church services, neither go out of the house, nor my room!

But, I know that a decision must be made, 'to give up? or not?

Then did what I needed to do, LEARN A SKILL, differentiated from the majority; due to my UNIQUE Medical History! My God sent me to learn!

http://www.hightrustspeaking.com/blog/

When will you feel okay?

This link; is the link to see why people like me want to live on, and have the discipline to get a routine for diet or even housework!

It is NEVER Too Late to SMILE.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gc4HGQHgeFE

That's why I even learnt to Speak; despite the odds against me.

I KNEW I COULD LEARN TO DO SOMETHING, different.

http://www.hightrustspeaking.com/blog/

Motivational training! To live on...

I was told to do something in my life! Take action, and not just make plans without implementation!


I look unusual now, as I started my ‘disciplinary lifestyle’, by:

• Eating healthily, and not testing my ‘luck’ on my allergy; to raw food.
• Consuming LESS fried or ‘rich’ food, but vegetables, and some needed nutritious vitamins.
• Drank health drinks like Tupperware: BerryGen, as it contains berries; which contained nutrients I needed!

I trained my skeletal body up from ‘skin and bone’, by:

• Sweeping; mopping the floor of my home, and doing house chores.
• Walk around, go out of the house; to meet friends and to exercise
• Avoid unnecessary ‘challenges’ like ego related ones, as I am recovering, not striving!

Be humble, as the only victory I desired is to beat my ‘illness; spillover effect!’

And I learnt how to speak, to rebuild my life. So I needed help! I got it from HIM!!!!!
http://www.hightrustspeaking.com/

What made people think, like him?

Yes,yes, yes... god is there when you did something, and seemingly cannot finish,  due to your limitations.

God gave me some hope and some help; to carry on.

I am not forgotten!

Today, an upcoming business development expert spoke to me like a friend!



He, Mr Koh Seng Choon; who I met a few months ago, called upon me to work for him! I'd rather work for friends, family and anybody who knew me somehow.

I was asked about some background information; concerning me, when we met the first time. As a person like me, who can only hope, and not demand, I told him, "I am a cancer survivor."

Not bad;
when I thought the society is leaving me behind, some special people come to my aid!

Believe me, hope is there, just reach out to it.

Tiring, dreaded, but not giving up!

Here's the fact, too many things in life is influenced by peer pressure.

I find that people have problems believing in anything, they had not tried, seen or heard of before.


Mostly, people like to belittle others.

I feel that everybody can do something else, anything; 'BETTER' they in this world. Not to simply make big money without regards of what they have done to the future of the community or the world.

They must have forgotten the phrase: The "spillover effect".

So, I took the challenge to make them stop it. I look above average, and nobody knows I was so close to death before.

I will never stop learning, despite all the discrimination!

No categorization can be done for the people who refuse to belief in death!
I push myself forward, towards something; I do not know, but I know I am making progress!

http://www.hightrustspeaking.com/1-day-public-speaking/

Getting something done, in a 'less usual way!'

I have finally acquired a non- academic skill that is so important in my life!

In fact, I simply did not know that there was another door waiting to be opened; rather than getting Certified in Engineering, Arts, Social Sciences.etc

I learnt from a speaker, how to say something smart!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6stLO2fDNc