I read about something I found useful; to share!

The 'formula' related to the way the 'violent' adolescents act, and 'problematic' kids, are all related to the teaching and model of their parents! Hmm... I have a negative parent, and the other an optimistic, opportunity seeing parent!

See, the simple atricle I read told me that the feeling of weakness can be controlled! So, I went the way leading me to optimism.

Thank God I did as I knew I had to rebuild everything from the 'start'.

• Think of happy memories, your achievements in life!
• Be appreciative of the environment
• Acknowledge that there is support for you, even if you cannot see it!

I had one thought in mind, as I watched the clip on Nick Vujicic, and

I know that I can do something for myself; STILL! (YOU, YOU, AND YOU ALL MUST Survive TOO!)

Faith is more powerful than belief?!

My belief, gave me relief

I remembered the days I fought against tremendous pain to stay alive. But there were worries by people ‘around me’, who cringe when they saw dosages of pain killers; morphine injected into me to keep me sane.
I will not say that I did not depend on ‘medical drugs’ to survive the pain, but I must emphasize the Faith I had in the surgeon and my God, which gave me the ‘simplest course of action to take!
I thought, nothing to leave behind, nothing I left behind, so,  “let’s ’surrender’ and smile that there are people crying for me, and doing everything they can to save me.”
So, you just relax, and let God do the rest.

There are people out there, to save you. It is the ‘matter of when, and not why’.

So be nice to others, we do not know who will save us!

What is life for; is it worth living; on? Hmm, try...

There is the 'try' thing that motivators told me not to tell myself to try; but go do the something, with the "will do it' in my mind.

I was told before, live, believe in life, not death!

So, I simply popped the question to the person, attempting to give me some strength to 'breathe': What is all worth? Living on will only make me feel worse when I realize the loss of my healthy, athletic and 'vibrant' social life!

Well, the answer was simple, but powerful.

My brother told me gently, my parents love me. And many others too, so be strong.

Today, I look up the sky, god is looking at me, your god is looking at you too!

So, live; well!

A formula that makes sense!

The solution to a problem  ->
Triggers emotion ->
Triggers thoughts ->

(resulting in:)->

Reaction (response)

This could be why negative people simply DO THEIR BEST TO AVOID, while the positive people think of such obstacles as a leeson to learn from!

EASIER SAID THAN DONE, I confess, I am still learning!

It is late, but not impossible, YET!

I often 'postponed' urgent activities in the past. Therefore the events that resulte from this neglect has lft me with a huge workload, many frustrating and burdening in the sense of perception as I was a person who was; lazy. A procrastinator!

The resultant effect is the failure in time management, planning in lifestyle, family and the simplest of relationships.

Now the focus is on you, where you have to avoid the mistakes I made and prevent the resultant backlashes that will definitely become an obstacle in your life, career and any form of relationships.

BETTER LATE THAN NEVER

Not just Law of Attraction itself.

Many more ‘sub points; in each subheading’

I thought that the Law of attraction was the whole ‘secret to success’ itself. However, I ‘dug ‘deeper only to realize it is like the desktop wallpaper! There is more than just THAT.


Like the Law of the Straight Lines: Getting to targets the ‘fastest way, rather than letting noise distract or make the route; a curved one’.

I am at the working age now, like the 'young impulsive perception' initially, I wanted instant gratification, so I had expectations more than thoughts of earning a future. I admit that I was a naïve student, with the wrong mindset and wrong; ATTITUDE.

So, I am going to tell you, what not to do! Like me.

You, must not…

• Think of everything as a one hundred percent success
• Do things that seem totally correct; to you, not others.
• Keep a close minded mindset, instead, listen to your peer’s advice!
• Do not go out of your comfort zone without doing thorough research on the activity you will be doing!

In short, do things rationally. NOT LIKE ME, RASH-LY!

The Law of Attraction is not all like becoming a magnet for money and other luxury!

Learn to live, not live for nothing!

Survival depends on an ULTIMATE medicine

 "A cheerful heart is medicine. but a broken spirit saps a person's strength."

-quoted from Proverbs

In fact, to smile and learn to talk well, gives me the confidence to smile, as I do not need to fear Speaking to anyone. However, learn their 'language and culture' though.

If you are planning on the future, do not be obstructed by the 'barriers to entry' into the 'market' which contains the DREAM you wanted. Negative people who gossip about others, make a conversation out of complaints are just too sad; and may drag YOU down, so, be nice, and 'slowly slip away from bad habits.'

And, spread the SMILES!